Since I broke up with my ex the last November,I often dreamhim. I clearly know that he is not a suitable person that God like for me.
This week I know he falls in love with an other girl. I have not care about him for a long time but now I am a little sad.
I also clearly know that I am not very close to God.In addition, there is a boy chasing me. He is kind and geltleman but he does not believe in God.
All these three questions make me crazy. I understand I need help how should I do and how can I close to God? thank you for your help.Thank you.
Dear Miss Chow
Many people are like you, they rely on their feelings instead of God's word.
I wonder what kind of God He is when you think of God ?
ans what do you really want ?
You are just feeling sad because your ex found a new love, and you are not sure if you should take this new man who wants to be close friend with you.
Actually it's not wise to start a new relationship untill you find out what's wrong ended your last marriage, and no more emotion attachment . it would take at least a couple years.
Are you sure you really care the realationship between you and God ?
this is the beginning of the new year, why don't you make a resolution first, go find out what you really want in your life, and what kind of person would you like to be
and then you will know what to do.
for the time being, if you really believe in God , ask Him to give you the direction everyday for a week, and see what happen from there.
and if He is only your decoration, I can say nomore.